Senior leaders going through a peer calibration symbolising an method to reset imposter syndrome

Imposter Reset: Evidence-Based Confidence for Senior Leaders

November 04, 20256 min read

Imposter Reset: Evidence-Based Confidence for Senior Leaders

The Unfiltered Leader

No spin. No fluff. Just what actually works.

You have the track record, the title, the team. Yet the quiet question shows up in the shower, on the train, and right before big calls: "What if this is the moment they realise I'm guessing?" In the UK, 85% of professionals experience imposter syndrome, with 90% of women and 80% of men affected [1]. In the US, 71% of CEOs report experiencing impostor syndrome [2]. So ... no, you're not alone. Senior confidence isn't a personality trait. It's a system built on evidence. This issue is about installing that system. Here's the download...


Self-doubt at the top is not a glitch

It's an outcome of three forces, and it's highly predictable.

First, complexity spikes while clean feedback disappears. Research shows leadership self-efficacy is strongly associated with more effective leadership behaviours and better performance [3]. When the feedback loop breaks, self-efficacy slides, and you make more decisions with incomplete information, and you hear about outcomes late, if at all.

Second, leaders underestimate themselves precisely where it matters. A 2025 study of over 1,200 leaders and their teams found leaders consistently rated their strengths lower than their people did, especially on courage, strategic thinking, and self-improvement [4]. Teams often see more capability than the person at the centre.

Third, imposter patterns are widespread among high achievers, with a gendered edge. Studies show 75% of female executives experience imposter syndrome, compared to 66% of women in tech and 75% of Harvard Business School students [5]. Up to 82% of people globally experience imposter feelings at some point [6]. The research, though, reveals prevalence ranges from 9-82% depending on screening tools, with particularly high rates among ethnic minorities [7].

Self-doubt doesn't stay inside one's head. It shows up as delayed decisions, over-preparation, micromanagement, and avoidance of visible opportunities [8].

That's how a private story becomes an organisational drag.

The modern leadership myth

We've all been sold the image: flawless certainty, instant answers, big-stage charisma. In reality, most serious leaders are running complex portfolios of risk, pressure, and trade-offs. Doubt is rational.

The issue is not the presence of doubt, but the absence of a working practice that converts doubt into better judgement rather than paralysis.

Overconfidence can hurt performance, and so can chronic under-confidence. Studies on self-efficacy show the leaders who perform best aren't the loudest or the most certain. They're the ones whose belief in their ability is grounded in repeated, real evidence [9].

Quiet confidence comes from seeing your own data often enough that your nervous system stops treating every decision like a referendum on your worth.


Three Routines to Stabilise Self-Trust in 30 Days

1. Build a confidence ledger, not a highlight reel

Create a one-page ledger with three columns: decision or action, evidence, and impact. Every day, note three items:

  • A decision you made or backed

  • Concrete evidence that it added value, even in a small way

  • What this says about your capability

Bandura's work on self-efficacy tells us that near-term, specific evidence beats distant, grand goals when tasks are complex [9]. Over 30 days, this ledger will turn a vague feeling of "I'm not sure I know what I'm doing" into a visible list of situations you've handled. The key is to make it boring and consistent, not inspirational. Ten minutes at the end of the day is enough.

2. Run a decision journal instead of replaying conversations at 3am

Pick your high-impact decisions for the week. For each, write down:

  • The context and constraints

  • The options you considered

  • The choice you made and why

  • The time horizon on which you'll judge it

Review this weekly and you'll see patterns. Maybe your risk calls are better than you think or feel. Maybe your delays happen in a specific domain or situation. Decision journals help us remove hindsight bias. With that removed, you will stop telling yourself stories about how you "always get it wrong" and start seeing where your judgement is strong and where you actually need support.

This is how confidence becomes antifragile. Each decision, whether it lands or not, feeds the next one with clearer information.

3. Install structured peer calibration

Isolation fuels imposter narratives. Senior leaders often feel they cannot speak openly about doubt with their own teams or board [10].

Create a monthly 45-minute calibration with two or three trusted peers. Use a simple structure:

  • Each person brings one situation where they felt out of their depth

  • The group reflects observable strengths they saw in how it was handled

  • One concrete suggestion per person for future situations of the same type

You're looking to build a habit of reality-checking your self-view against the view of people who see your work from the outside, not a therapy session. Over time, this will help narrow the gap between perceived and actual capability.


Here's the brief

Senior self-doubt is not a sign that you don't belong. It's a sign your role has outgrown old ways of measuring yourself. Confidence that holds under pressure comes from seeing, week after week, that your actions create value, that you learn when they don't, and that other serious leaders recognise what you bring.

Rebuild that evidence and you reset the story.

If you looked only at the evidence of the last 30 days, not the voice in your head, what would it actually say about the leader you're becoming?


20-Second Imposter Reset Check

Answer yes or no:

  • I can list three concrete strengths in how I lead without deflecting or minimising

  • I have written evidence from the last two weeks that my decisions created measurable value

  • I review at least some of my key decisions after the fact to extract learning

  • I have at least one peer space where I can discuss doubts and missteps honestly

  • My team would recognise the same strengths I describe for myself

Three or more yes answers suggest you have the basics of a working evidence loop. Fewer than three signals a gap. Start with the confidence ledger.


The Numbers

  • 85% of UK professionals experience imposter syndrome (90% women, 80% men) [1]

  • 71% of US CEOs report imposter syndrome symptoms [2]

  • 75% of female executives experience imposter syndrome [5]

  • 82% of people globally experience imposter feelings [6]

  • 9-82% prevalence range depending on screening tool [7]

  • 78% of business leaders have experienced imposter syndrome [11]

  • 75% increase in imposter syndrome searches in 2024 [12]


References

  1. ComplyGate UK. "85% of UK Professionals Suffer from Imposter Syndrome." Survey of 1,000 UK professionals, 2021.

  2. Korn Ferry. "71% of U.S. CEOs Experience Imposter Syndrome." Global Insights Report, June 2024.

  3. National Center for Biotechnology Information. "The Association Between Leadership Self-Efficacy and Effective Leadership Behaviours." PMC, 2021.

  4. Intelligent CISO. "Imposter Syndrome: A Growing Concern for Leaders." June 2025.

  5. Gitnux. "Imposter Syndrome Statistics." Market Data Report, 2024.

  6. Allwork.Space. "Imposter Syndrome and Perfectionism Are Killing Your Career." November 2024.

  7. National Center for Biotechnology Information. "Prevalence, Predictors, and Treatment of Impostor Syndrome: A Systematic Review." PMC, 2020.

  8. Medileadership.org. "Facing Down the Demon of Self-Doubt." 2024.

  9. Squarespace. "Self-Confidence and Leader Performance." Research Paper, 2024.

  10. Richard Reid. "Imposter Syndrome in Leadership: Confidence at the Top." 2024.

  11. NerdWallet Research. "Business Leaders and Imposter Syndrome." Cited in HRD America, 2024.

  12. HRD America. "Searches for Impostor Syndrome Surge 75% in 2024." February 2024.


If you'd like the one-page confidence ledger template and decision journal layout to get started, comment "reset" or send me a DM, and I'll send them your way.

Most coaching helps you get from A to B.
I help you go from A to… A... So the problem stops running the show.
I’m Skye van Heyzen, transformational coach and founder of Adaptive Apex. 
I help modern professionals lead better - without burning out, playing it small, or pretending they’re fine.

Skye van Heyzen

Most coaching helps you get from A to B. I help you go from A to… A... So the problem stops running the show. I’m Skye van Heyzen, transformational coach and founder of Adaptive Apex. I help modern professionals lead better - without burning out, playing it small, or pretending they’re fine.

LinkedIn logo icon
Instagram logo icon
Youtube logo icon
Back to Blog